Matthew Perry nearly missed out on 'Friends' role that changed his life

Matthew Perry is best known for his role as Chandler Bing on the beloved sitcom "Friends" – but he nearly missed out on that gig of a lifetime.

Nov 4, 2023 - 08:44
Matthew Perry nearly missed out on 'Friends' role that changed his life

Millions of people across the globe recognize Matthew Perry's face thanks to his career-defining portrayal of Chandler Bing on "Friends," but the role nearly went to someone else.

Perry, who died at his Los Angeles home last weekend at the age of 54 of unknown causes, detailed the story in his 2022 memoir, "Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing." As he described, he was attached to another show at the time and was originally unable to audition for "Friends."

He wrote that in 1994, he was 24 years old and struggling in his acting career, explaining, "Drinking was slowly but surely winning the war against auditions, and no one was really interested in me anyway."

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His manager had informed him that he'd been getting "daily feedback" that he "looked like a mess" during auditions, and his business manager had told him he was broke. Out of desperation, he reached out to his agents, telling them that he "needed a job, something, anything, and it had to be right then."

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From there, Perry landed the lead role in the pilot for a show called "L.A.X. 2194," which he described as a "sci-fi comedy" about baggage handlers at the L.A. airport. The show was set 200 years in the future with aliens acting as the travelers, and the plan was for little people to play the aliens.

"If all this sounds underwhelming, please know that it was way worse than that," he joked in his memoir.

It wasn't until after he officially received that role that the script for a new sitcom, then titled "Friends Like Us," began creating a lot of buzz. Perry read the script and wanted to be involved, even calling his agents again to beg them to get him an audition. But they told him it wouldn't be possible because he was already involved with "L.A.X. 2194."

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"I was devastated," he wrote. "When I read the script for Friends Like Us it was as if someone had followed me around for a year, stealing my jokes, copying my mannerisms, photocopying my world-weary yet witty view of life. One character in particular stood out to me: it wasn’t that I thought I could play ‘Chandler,’ I was Chandler."

It seemed like he wasn't the only one who thought so – he went on to describe several friends asking him for help with their auditions because the character of Chandler reminded them so much of him. Perry even said he would sometimes read the script himself and tell his friends just to copy his portrayal. Throughout this, he continued to call his agents, still desperate to get involved himself.

Eventually a friend of his, fellow actor Craig Bierko, was offered the role of Chandler, but at the same time he'd received another offer for a part in a show called "Best Friends." Despite his desire to take on the role himself, Perry advised him to go with "Friends Like Us," but Bierko chose the other show, leaving his dream part still available.

Perry said that finally, a producer for NBC, the network that produced "Friends," asked her husband, a producer for the network behind "L.A.X. 2194," if the show would get picked up, wanting to know if Perry was available. The husband said it wouldn't – and it never did – and just days later Perry got a phone call for a meeting with a creator of the legendary show, Marta Kauffman.

He wrote about nailing multiple auditions until he was finally cast as Chandler.

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Claiming that the job "saved my life," Perry wrote, "I don’t know what would have happened to me had the call gone the other way. It is not out of the realms of possibility that I may have ended up on the streets of downtown LA shooting heroin in my arm until my untimely death."

"Friends" fans will likely know that the cast was also close in real life – during the 2021 reunion on Max, Perry said, "The best way that I can describe it is after the show was over, at a party or any kind of social gathering, if one of us bumped into each other, that was it. That was the end of the night. You just sat with the person all night long and that was it."

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He added, "You apologized to the people you were with, but they had to understand you had met somebody special to you and you were going to talk to that person for the rest of the night. And that’s the way it worked."

Following the news of his death, Jennifer Aniston, Courteney Cox, Lisa Kudrow, Matt LeBlanc and David Schwimmer released a joint statement to People that read, "We are all so utterly devastated by the loss of Matthew. We were more than just cast mates. We are a family. There is so much to say, but right now we’re going to take a moment to grieve and process this unfathomable loss."

"In time we will say more, as and when we are able. For now, our thoughts and our love are with Matty’s family, his friends, and everyone who loved him around the world."